Sexual Fetishes

Sexual fetishism, sometimes referred to as erotic fetishism, can be defined as the act of receiving sensual arousal from an object or situation. That object or situation is what is called the fetish. And the person involved would be called the fetishist. It can be as simple as becoming aroused when your partner wears a particular outfit or it can reach a point where it becomes a disorder if it causes psychosocial distress.

The term fetish, as a noun, actually had a completely different definition. It is defined as an object of worship that is believed to have supernatural powers. But fetishes also have sexual implications and are often used in conjunction with the term sexual fetish. And there also seems to be a divide between the pop culture use of the term “sexual fetish” and the psychological term “sexual fetishism”.

The pop culture reference is usually depicted stereotypically in a less harmful light whereas the psychological term can deal with more distressing examples that might need therapeutic treatment. For example, no one is going to claim that the typical use of lingerie is a dangerous fetish when we see advertisements for Victoria Secret on prime time television.

But for the rest of this article we’ll talk about a couple of the more innocent examples of sexual fetishism. Generally having a fixation on a particular body part, like the butt, breasts or even feet is called partialism or animate fetishism because the object is not inanimate. So, like most things, the term gets used loosely and can mean different things to different people.

Body piercings can be a sexual fetish if the person being aroused needs to be with a person that has piercings or a particular piercing, because it is the object that is producing the arousal. Clothing made out of leather or latex can have a similar affect for some people. And most men would admit some fixation to lingerie. Please visit here cityofeve.com.

Another common fetish would be fingernails and lipstick. Although, this gets a big grey as an actual fetish because it is generally not the lipstick and the fingernails themselves that are considered arousing. On the flip side, some women have a fetish for the image of a bald man. Again, this branches into partialism or animate fetishism. Other sexual alternatives involve acts of submission, voyeurism and exhibitionism. There is no doubt that there is more to sexual fetishes than what meets the eyes. It is a complex term with a complex history. It is important to remember that there is more to the term than just the pop culture examples; it can be a psychologically distressing event that could need therapy to resolve.

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